A post dedicated to girls love problems. We all ask ourselves the same questions, hence these points may be a start to find an answer.
Is Your Man the Marrying Kind?*
When you were a little girl, you probably had a cute daydream of what your wedding day would be like. No doubt, it was wonderfully romantic and everyone lived happily ever after. Sadly, real life is not like that and finding ‘the one’ is a road littered with potholes. Besides, even if you do finally meet the man of your dreams, he may not necessarily be the marrying kind. So how can you tell if your future includes a diamond engagement ring from Ascot Diamonds and a white meringue dress?
It’s Not Just Sex
One night stands and casual ‘friends with benefits’ are definitely not the marrying kind. Sure, you could end up falling head over heels in love with someone you sleep with on an occasional basis, but this is more likely to lead to heartbreak than marriage.
You’ve Met His Family and Friends
If you have been introduced to his family and friends, they like you and you like them, this is a good sign the relationship is heading in the right direction. Men who are ready for a committed relationship don’t ditch you in favor of their mates and are happy to take you for Sunday lunch at their mom’s house.
You Talk about the Future
Have you spent hours talking about how many kids you want, what their names are, and where you are going to live when you’re both old and grey? If so, you know your man is ready for a future with you. Men who want to be with you are happy to make plans that include both of you, be it a cinema date next weekend or a dream vacation next year.
You Can Rely on Him
Men who fade away the moment the going gets tough are not the marrying kind. If your man is there for you when life knocks you down, whether he comes round to care for you when you are sick or picks up the bill because you are broke, he is a man you can rely on. This makes him a keeper.
Your Stars Align
It doesn’t matter how much you love a guy, if he is not on the same page re: future aspirations, kids, and the whole nine yards, he is not the marrying kind, for you at least. They say love conquers all, but this is a myth. If you are from different religions, different cultures, or you don’t see eye to eye on important issues such as finances and kids, it doesn’t bode well for the future.
He Only Has Eyes for You
Does your man only have eyes for you? If so, he’s clearly madly in love with you and it is only a matter of time before he gets down on one knee to pop the question. On the other hand, if he has a reputation for being a ladies’ man and he regularly goes off the radar, don’t start planning your dream wedding just yet, and if it’s too late, have a kick-ass divorce lawyer lined up, just in case…
We hope that your man is the marrying kind, but if he isn’t, ditch him now and start looking for Mr. Right.
Hope you have loved this fancy read. All I can say is that these answers are possible answers, for experience I know that people can surprise you and let you down all of a sudden all the time. Love has no rules and that’s why we like it and hate it at the same time.
Any tips to recognise if he’s the right one?
*This is a collaborative post